Houjse_of_ITB Dating Profile
Real world lifestyle Master w/slave-wife and beta
We are a IRL (like in the real world) 24/7 lifestyle Master-husband/slave-wife couple w/ beta slave. My angel and I are partners in this crazy crazy world, in more ways than one, and have been dear friends for a very long time. We are very happy together, completely devoted to each other (read that we are a monogamous couple) and I just am not into the psuedo-psycho derogatory name calling or belittling her with vulgarities because she a slave. I bless Goddess the day I collared My beloved angel, to whom I am now wed. Yes, we finally did the deed in a splendid Formal Collaring and lawful wedding ceremony dead on at Moonrise (I mean to the minute) on the eve of the Celestial Autumnal Equinox. If there is such a thing as 'a true slavegirl', my darling angel would be that girl. By the premise of our relationship and by the scripture of our contract, she is as close to being a real slave as is legally possible in this day and age. Within the agreed upon terms of our relationship, she has the 'right' to breathe. Everything else is a granted priviledge or she seeks my permission. She is not permitted safe words or limits of any kind.Indeed I am very strict with her, yet as any who knows us will attest I uphold every respect for her as a person and as a lady, and insist those around us do the same (for whilst she is My slave, she is NO slut). Angel is every inch a lady, refreshingly intelligent, witty and charming; and a stunningly beautiful woman.We are very real to life. Angel does not 'live on her knees' at the end of a chain, nor does she crawl for My attention. She need not denigrate herself for My amusement. She applies herself to every task whole heartedly and serves lovingly from within her spirit. Read closely: I'm not online to play BS cyber games or pick up on a stray shot of leg. I'm here to visit with like minded and chat with pervs I have come to know. I like people (including chatters) who are courteous, well-mannered and polite. I'll rip into an ill-mannered troll in a heart beat. Some of the chatters in the rooms appreciate this, and welcome it. Naturally some don't like it, c`est la vie. If you're one of them, simply *step back and get out of the way*. The only thing worse than a rude, ill-mannered troll is someone who encourages, by action or inaction, them to disrupt the flow of chat. It's no secret there are plenty of idiots on alt; posers, wannabe-nevergonnabe's, gamers, snerts, dweebs, peggers and other nefarious riff raff.Refer to the 'Cyber Rule of Halves': half the people in cyberland are just your garden grade run of the mill stupid. Half the rest are merely clueless. Half the remainder are nefarious sorts with their own agendas that having nothing to do with your better interest you're better off not getting involved with. Half of what's left are cheating on or lying about someone they're already involved with. Of the ones left standing, half of them are gay or they've been burned and they're just not interested. the very few still listed and worth grabbing are generally already grabbed, and they're typically quite happy with this.Is I one or ain't I one? You have a brain, use it; get to know Me, then make your own decision. Think for yourself, and have the decency to let Me do the same.I calls things likes I sees 'em, and I don't always take the time to paint up an ugly truth so it sounds purty in someones ears. That's how I am. This may seem blunt to some, and perhaps it is, but oh well. For the newbies: I have a file (221k text - 54 pages) of various writings on the D/s lifestyle I have compiled through the years. A veritable dearth of good information. Please feel free to ask for a copy of it. SS&C/Consent Let's cover this SS&C briefly: SS&C has its place in the world. In all walks of life, not just BDSM. Ask the arborist if climbing 100' up into a wind blown tree swaying 20' to an arc to clip a few limbs is SS&C. Ask the stunt pilot at an air show if the loops and rolls and swoops are SS&C. Ask the policeman in the night if stopping a swerving car is SS&C. Ask the FDNY if entering a burning structure that just got hit by a commercial airliner is SS&C. I promise you what I did in Gulf I wasn't overly SS&C either. There comes a point where it loses its 'Oh Holiest of Holies ' mantra appeal, as well as perhaps much of its application. If I simply MUST repeat the same question to the same person everyday for five years, even after receiving the same answer to the same question from the same person everyday for five years... then would you not think that perhaps there is a problem even more fundamental than the basic premise of TPE, yes? What about basic consent: I don't always consent to wash dishes every night, I do it because it needs to done to keep clean dishes in the cupboards to eat on, and contributes to keeping the home harmonious (and because hiring someone to come in and wash them for Me is expensive). Nor do I always consent to doing laundry, cooking 3 meals a day plus preparing snacks, vacuuming, dusting, washing windows, tuning up the cars, changing the oil, rotating the tires, mowing the yard (MUST I ask that grass really need to consent? It IS after all a living growing thing); feeding the animals or cleaning up after them, changing the bed sheets or the myriad other mundane taskings that make this House more than merely 4 walls and a roof. These things are called 'Duties', Duties that when fulfilled make this House a harmonious home,My consent is therefore a non-issue. I do them because the alternative, called a 'Consequence', is undesirable. Now it is a well known fact that Men desire sex (in fact there are several industries built around the goal of providing this sex to a Man), and keeping your Man well sexed certainly contributes to a harmonious House. Sexual variety? Think of it this way, build a mental image of your very favorite ideal dinner. Be creative, add all the trimmings (and that yummylicious gravy is allowed if you want it, It IS your imagination afterall). Got it drawn in the minds eye? Betcha ya dinnit bring them fancy eatin dishes widjadidja (yes, that IS a word down here)?Now ask yourself, would you want this for breakfast, lunch and dinner, 3 times a day, everyday, for the rest of your life? Get the idea? But is the providing of this variety of sex to the Man of the House a 'Duty'? Well, the submissive or slave girl who is the provider of that sex may withdraw consent (read the XIII Amendment to the Constitution of the United States) of course (this IS a choice -> she <- can make).However the alternative, aka Consequence, is He can dismiss her (this being a choice that -> He <- can make)... and go get it somewhere else. To understand the connotations of language, you must first be ->capable<- of understanding the denotations of language. Appropriate interpretation of an author's statement depends upon understanding the actual intent of the words. It is one's inability to grasp the intricacies of language which lead to misunderstanding and misinterpretation. Learn to read the intent of what is actually written (before trying to impose your opinion on what you think was said).